Monday, May 23, 2011
ASK KJ: Get bored easily? This is not a character flaw...I...
ASK KJ: Get bored easily? This is not a character flaw...I...: "Growing up all I ever heard was 'Do you finish anything you start?' Not to mention all of the times I would get in trouble for being bored....."
Get bored easily? This is not a character flaw...It is a character draw!
Growing up all I ever heard was "Do you finish anything you start?" Not to mention all of the times I would get in trouble for being bored....When I left home, I went through job after job and it was not because I couldn't keep them.
I get bored. Simple really. I need things to amuse me and if I do something for too long I feel like I am going to scream. I cannot lie it can be a pain in the ass when I want to make one of my kids a afghan or I want to finish a painting for the living room, but the rest of the time it gives me a chance to try all kinds of new things.
We are told getting bored is a negative thing but the truth is it is really more freeing than the restrictions people place on themselves because they think they have too.
The wealthiest people in the world will tell you that they get bored easily. It means we are not inclined to settle. It means we feel the need to try new things. It means we find our security and stability inside of ourselves instead of seeking it out in a job, or a relationship.
It means when we are not happy we change things. It means we get to try all kinds of different things in our lifetime.
It means freedom of choice. Of course it also means feeling of failure if you continue to believe their is something wrong with you because you get bored.
When your life is over it will not matter how many different jobs you had so it should not matter now. Paying your bills is the priority not how you pay them.
Do whatever you need to do in order to love the life you are living, and when you are trying to decide what you should go to school for...or what kind of job you want to have...Try thinking about what you want to do right now. It cannot possibly be a bad thing to have a few degrees.
Take the pressure off, you do not know what is going to happen tomorrow so love the life you are living today.
To my fellow boredom is bad peeps....Keep changing....You can always find room to store those half done projects... For me I am bored as soon as I figure it out and that means I am constantly learning...I will get back to those projects eventually. I am sure I will...
KJ
I get bored. Simple really. I need things to amuse me and if I do something for too long I feel like I am going to scream. I cannot lie it can be a pain in the ass when I want to make one of my kids a afghan or I want to finish a painting for the living room, but the rest of the time it gives me a chance to try all kinds of new things.
We are told getting bored is a negative thing but the truth is it is really more freeing than the restrictions people place on themselves because they think they have too.
The wealthiest people in the world will tell you that they get bored easily. It means we are not inclined to settle. It means we feel the need to try new things. It means we find our security and stability inside of ourselves instead of seeking it out in a job, or a relationship.
It means when we are not happy we change things. It means we get to try all kinds of different things in our lifetime.
It means freedom of choice. Of course it also means feeling of failure if you continue to believe their is something wrong with you because you get bored.
When your life is over it will not matter how many different jobs you had so it should not matter now. Paying your bills is the priority not how you pay them.
Do whatever you need to do in order to love the life you are living, and when you are trying to decide what you should go to school for...or what kind of job you want to have...Try thinking about what you want to do right now. It cannot possibly be a bad thing to have a few degrees.
Take the pressure off, you do not know what is going to happen tomorrow so love the life you are living today.
To my fellow boredom is bad peeps....Keep changing....You can always find room to store those half done projects... For me I am bored as soon as I figure it out and that means I am constantly learning...I will get back to those projects eventually. I am sure I will...
KJ
Sunday, May 22, 2011
ASK KJ: Psychic Sunday...You might be and EMPATH!
ASK KJ: Psychic Sunday...You might be and EMPATH!: "When you spend your whole life feeling the things you feel it would be absurd to think that you would just know that you have a gift. Far ea..."
Psychic Sunday...You might be and EMPATH!
When you spend your whole life feeling the things you feel it would be absurd to think that you would just know that you have a gift. Far easier and more common to believe that everyone feels the same way. For me I just grew up thinking I was crazy. (Hush now)
News flash though, not everyone feels things the same way. I can tell you without question that everyone is born with a gut instinct. That feeling or more so that warning that takes place inside of us, like a beacon of help from above when we actually listen to it. Not a common thing, for people to listen to it. I can also tell you with complete accuracy that we are all born with some sort of ability.
Some are born to listen, some sing, some help, some create wealth, some own business, some heal, some grow things, the list could go on and on. I have told my youngest daughter we are like Tinker Bell...lol I know...but what I meant by it was we all have an area of expertise, Like wood fairies, and water fairies and earth fairies, we all have a "Category" that we fit into. A mold of individuals that see, feel and hear things a certain way.
So what does this mean to you? Well to start off with it means there is good chances you are not crazy.....This does not stop you from going through a lot of crap in the emotional department but with any luck over the next while I might be able to help you understand what you are going through....
This weekend is about Empath! The Internet's description of an empath is.....(drum roll please)
News flash though, not everyone feels things the same way. I can tell you without question that everyone is born with a gut instinct. That feeling or more so that warning that takes place inside of us, like a beacon of help from above when we actually listen to it. Not a common thing, for people to listen to it. I can also tell you with complete accuracy that we are all born with some sort of ability.
Some are born to listen, some sing, some help, some create wealth, some own business, some heal, some grow things, the list could go on and on. I have told my youngest daughter we are like Tinker Bell...lol I know...but what I meant by it was we all have an area of expertise, Like wood fairies, and water fairies and earth fairies, we all have a "Category" that we fit into. A mold of individuals that see, feel and hear things a certain way.
So what does this mean to you? Well to start off with it means there is good chances you are not crazy.....This does not stop you from going through a lot of crap in the emotional department but with any luck over the next while I might be able to help you understand what you are going through....
This weekend is about Empath! The Internet's description of an empath is.....(drum roll please)
“Empaths have the ability to scan another's psyche for thoughts and feelings or for past, present, and future life occurrences. Many empaths are unaware of how this actually works, and have long accepted that they were sensitive to others.”
Now my description:
An Empath often confuses the emotions they pick up for their own, causing a multitude of confusion and fear. Walking by, driving by, sitting with, talking about an individual who is either very upset, happy, sad, angry and you start to without reason or understanding take on that feeling. Fears, worry's happening in your brain that you do not really understand, other than you are living it and feeling it. (that is what makes it so hard to understand...It is so intense how could it not be yours??? well it isn't)
Being overwhelmed by your emotions all the time....Getting a feeling about something and then finding out later you where right.....These are all tell tale signs of Empath and that is a gift.....Of course till you figure out not everyone feels this way or until you start to understand it a little better, it feels like a curse...
An empath feels things happening. Feels what is going on, takes on emotions....An empath is a healer....Someone who can be Empathetic to those who are struggling...An empath is a brilliant mind that lives in their emotions....
an old soul, and as you are reading this thinking that this applies to everyone.....No, it doesn't....
Fear not though, if this is what it feels like to be you....there is help....learning intuition, reading about empath, talking to friends....these are all ways to "deal with" learn about your gift....
When we know how to use being an Empath it is an amazing gift....I am a Clairvoyant Empath...in the mean time grab yourself a Smokey quartz ring or bracelet..it will help you cope...
Well that is my tidbit for the day.....Learn well, love often.....and remember if you want something you have never had...You must do something you have never done!
Love Kjarlune
Wednesday, May 4, 2011
ASK KJ: The letter that went out to my clients.
ASK KJ: The letter that went out to my clients.: "If you want something you have never had, you have to make some changes! Our soul family has a job to do and that is to provide what we ne..."
The letter that went out to my clients.
If you want something you have never had, you have to make some changes!
Our soul family has a job to do and that is to provide what we need. You have a job to do too, and that is to believe they will provide it. Not tell them how, not do it all yourself, but to believe they will provide. When you restrict them you restrict your options. You restrict your outcomes. LYL
It is so easy to get caught up in what is not going right in your life. To get stuck repeating your days. Same thing every day with no real clear path or belief it will change and even if it could, what would you do?
You are not alone if you are feeling lost and confused. It is common practice when not living the life you are here to live.
Whether you are not sure why you are not in that perfect relationship, or tired of being sick and tired, the only way to turn it around is to make changes.
The question that leaves you with now is change what? Or worse, How?
It is different for each of us. Life is not a small menu fast food drive through. It is a buffet of options and choices. It is everything you can imagine it to be, or nothing you want to look forward too. It can even be somewhere in the middle.
We are here to learn and to grow and how you choose to do that is your decision. Your world is full of choices even though it feels like you are only surrounded by limitations.
Even when life is amazing like mine there are still struggles. Still times when one needs a little helping hand. As most of you know I have been working on my health and weight loss and to date I am happy to say I have lost 60 pounds. Brian and I are celebrating our 6th month of being non smokers and it looks like our oldest daughter is coming home to go to University. (Thank you Grandpa) (I sure hope this does not jinx that) lol
Even with everything going right, even knowing what and how the Universe works, even I occasionally go seek out some assistance. For me it is my weight loss and for others it is their life’s path.
Some of my best sessions in the last few months have been life coaching. Watching eyes open, and the fog lift. It is amazing.
I have had the pleasure of watching clients get past depression and feel like living. Watched a couple of business’s open up. Some healers embark in new journeys. I have had the pleasure of participating in relationships turning around and new ones started. Illness, take a back seat and new career choices get made.
It is always a surprise when life gets better so fast. Once we step out of our survival, I can figure it out on my own, headspace. The truth is every one of you who has walked through my door for help over the last few months would have never done it if you knew what you needed to do to turn your life around. So thank you for trusting that I could help.
I am so proud of everyone one of you that have turned your worlds around recently. I knew it wouldn’t be hard once you let it happen. *grin*
We can do anything with the right tools.
The show is going great. We are having meetings and working on selling it. I promise as soon as I know you know.
For those of you waiting for the Living Room Manifestation I will be booking it this month. Either Sunday the 15th or Saturday the 21st. If you have a preference let Brian know.
It is spring, time for change and that means May specials. I will see you when you need me. Hugs!
Psychic Life Coaching is on sale During May for $160.00
(One hour sessions) Reg Price $200.00
In-Touch Intuitive Classes During May $1195.00
(Life time course) Reg Price $1495.00
Shedding the past! 12 classes over 12 months. A very intense, channelled. Turn your life around and make things happen kind of program. Tears are shed, Life long struggles ended. Commitment REQUIRED! No acceptations! Privacy and confidentiality demanded. If you cannot keep it all in the class, DON’T JOIN! (Not being testy just very important)
Class Starts August 2011 and ends August 2012. No late entries. No refunds because it is too much to handle. You will change. You will accomplish and you will grow. (I am not the only Instructor.) During May $1195.00 regular price $2495.00 (Graduation is a class trip. Not included in class price. We start together, we graduate together.)
Love Your Life
KJ
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