ASK KJ: Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read ...

ASK KJ: Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read ...: "Life truly can be amazing if we allow it to be. I have said that more times then even I care to remember but for the most part 8 out of 10 ..."

ASK KJ: Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read ...

ASK KJ: Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read ...: "Life truly can be amazing if we allow it to be. I have said that more times then even I care to remember but for the most part 8 out of 10 ..."

Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read this, it will help!!

Life truly can be amazing if we allow it to be. I have said that more times then even I care to remember but for the most part 8 out of 10 people who read it or hear it, don’t believe it. So I am going to take a moment and explain it just a little further.

I remember very clearly celebrating my 30^th birthday. Not a day I like to remember to be honest. It was probably the worst day of my life. I was leaving the excuse of being in my twenties to not have my shit together and heading to my thirties where there was no more excuses. I was depressed, unhappy, still felt like an abused wife even though I had been out of the abuse for a few years. I was miserable. Understand that it was heightened because it was my birthday but at the end of the line this was how I felt all the time. This is how many of us feel all the time. Miserable, like nothing is going our way and we can’t have what we want.

Brian and I had been together intimately for 4 months and for the most part were doing fine. Great sex, not great communication, and he seemed to have two cute kids. He had started to care about me so much that he tried to get someone who meant the world to me, but I had lost because of my irresponsibility and childish actions over the previous years , to come to the party. Lance didn’t come but the thought was there, without a doubt.

The night of my birthday I was feeling fat, worthless and all around miserable. Within a couple of hours even Brian was second guessing me. It is important to truly believe and understand at this point that you are what you think you are, and your life is what you think it is. You create your outcomes whether you like it or not.

Think of the amount of times you have thought about someone you do not want to talk too and poof the phone rings or you run into them. How about the amount of times you have thought or worried about a bill and the next day it comes in. Sometimes even to the point of being a final notice. Coincidence? All of the synchronicities in the world are just perfect timing? I don’t think so.

We manifest it. Bring it into our reality. Yes it is true that on occasion we can think of something as a pre warning or an intuitive thought but even your intuition is manifestation.

That night with me feeling fat and useless even Brian who obviously had some feelings for me took me outside to tell me he didn’t think this would work because he was not attracted to me. I was too big for his liking. Before we want to strike Brian down with lightning, I created this. I even knew it as he was saying it and in 2 minutes I had it turned around. Thank god I know and understand the law of attraction because I cannot imagine spending the last ten years without this man.

Why did my life suck ten years ago? Because I let it. Simple really. No matter what I was doing in my life. Getting up, working, raising my kids, working, using Brian as my toy, working….it was not what I was supposed to be working on., There was no real effort. Lots of drama, lots of poor me, but no real effort. I allowed my self to manifest a life I didn’t want. I allowed my excuses to rule me.

After that night I realized what I was doing and it all changed. That is all it really takes. Realizing what you are doing and doing something to change it. Even when you don’t know what to do. I concentrated on what I did love in my life. I concentrated on Brian and my kids and started working on the rest. When clients walked in my door they got more attention. More of me. When my friends were in need they got my undivided attention. I started treating everything how I would want to it to be for me. Even my kids got a break from crazy lady to lets sit and talk about it.

Within three months Brian and I were living together and his two kids had moved with us. They became my two kids. Within 6 months we had bought our first home, a new car and my business had doubled. And now today.

Within ten years my life went from miserable to FREAKING AMAZING!

I am married to my twin soul, had a wedding to die for. We have 4 of our own children that complete me. Ashley, Eddie, Ashley and Kailyn. We adopted a boy that moves me in a way most could never understand. My Dylan. We have taken in our oldest daughters best friend who is without question on of our children. Brian’s Jennifer. We have three unbelievable in law children. Matt: you are so good for Jenn. We love you…..Amanda: You are mine what more can I say. I adore you. Corey: you make our family so much more complete. There is not enough thank you’s for bringing our daughter home.

We have two grandbabies that are beyond our expectations. One was even given my middle name and with the grace of god sleeps at Grandma’s all the time. We own a beautiful home with a pool in the back, pool table in the living room, every guitar hero you could think of and many of our children. We drive gorgeous vehicles and every day get to wake up doing what we love. We have a TV show that is going national. People we work with that inspire us. I have a Producer and Camera man that defy the law of talent. They are beyond gifted in their field. Last but not least, I have people all over the world that not only know my name, but respect me and listen when I try to help them.

So today on my 40^th birthday I have only a few things to say. Wake up every day knowing you are in control of the life you have, over how it will be and what you can do. Never forget to thank god, the Universe or Flying Fairies if that is what you want to call it, for everything you have and can have because it is all gifts.

The law of attraction and manifestation is the only law you need to ever really understand and if you do not know what to do with your life, go see someone like me to figure it out. And last but not least. I am thrilled to be 40 because these last ten years have been beyond perfect. The next ten are going to be even better and I love manifesting my future. You will too.

No matter where you are in your life right now, no matter how overwhelming it all seems. Your Freaking Amazing is only thought patterns away.