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ASK KJ: Even your forever love can be broken.

ASK KJ: Even your forever love can be broken.: Relationships have become disposable. A couple of generations ago you would never have heard of marriages ending every day. Couples falling...

Even your forever love can be broken.

Relationships have become disposable. A couple of generations ago you would never have heard of marriages ending every day. Couples falling out of love as easy as changing the coffee house they order from.

A couple of generations ago there was an understanding. It did not mean everyone was happy but it did mean they tried.

We are all searching for our twin souls and as being someone who married mine I can understand why, but there is still a lot in the fine print you have not read yet about the perfect relationship!

It doesn’t matter if you are with a for now or a forever, you still have to work at it. Even I believed a twin soul was a guarantee of sorts, a no brainer we will understand each other forever kind of thing.

Relationships no matter how good they are end up destroyed every day. One minute the love is flowing and the next hate and anger take over.

A relationship can only work if there is constant communication, something so easily taken for granted and pushed to the side of even the best relationships. Pushed aside because life just gets to busy.

Our baggage comes with us whether we want it to or not, but surprisingly enough I don’t think that is what destroys the forever after.

The biggest mistake a couple who love each other makes is taking life’s stress’s out on each other. There is always something going on. Bills needing to be paid, kids trauma’s and drama’s. Your beloved pet getting sick or maybe even your parents. No matter what the story these take a toll on us and they take an even bigger toll on our marriages.

Those quick flash angers, the attitude you share with the one you love when you are in a bad mood. It adds up and before we know it even the best get broken. We think our relationships can handle anything because we are in love and when you love someone that should be enough right? It isn’t.

Life is going to get in your way whether you are in love or not. Those life lessons and strains are going to happen any way. Using our spouse as a batting cage emotionally to release life’s frustrations or make them understand just makes it worse.

For the most part we take things out on each other without even realizing and that is when it is the scariest. You have to understand that there is a reason you love that person, or at least a reason you did. Even the things that made you fall in love start to become the reasons you are annoyed when you allow life to take precedence in your love life.

Your partner, your forever after is supposed to be your best friend, your lover, your confidant and the one person you can tell everything too. We are not supposed to in a heated moment use it against each other. Take out all of our frustrations and just believe it will all work out.

Relationships don’t work anymore because we do not think about the other person. We think about ourselves. We think about what we need not what they need, about what we feel not what they feel. Relationships fail because there is no “I” in “we”.

Even the strongest of bonds can deteriorate when pushed to their limits. Try to remember the words you use because they can never be taken back. Try to remember the blame you throw because it can never be un done.

When and if it gets too late, all the things that got in the way of this relationship, all the reasons your love had to take a back seat will suffer too.

The kids you put before your partner they will suffer for the rest of their lives because you thought of them first. They will question relationships and will come from a broken home all because their immediate not life altering needs came first.

That money you needed to make instead of loving your partner, it will be split and often given to the lawyers, for all your hard work, when all you had to do was take a day off and play hooky with the one you love. Never go to bed angry and talk even when you were exhausted. Even when you didn’t want to talk.

Living in a box with the one you love is way better then living in a mansion losing the one you have loved since the moment you met them. Remember that when you trying to get ahead and allowing the stress to take its toll on your relationship.

Remember that as much as everything happens for a reason sometimes the reason is you have not learnt. Life is too short to take it out on the one you love. I know this because I am married too. Love your life, Love your partner. Love yourself. 

ASK KJ: Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read ...

ASK KJ: Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read ...: "Life truly can be amazing if we allow it to be. I have said that more times then even I care to remember but for the most part 8 out of 10 ..."

ASK KJ: Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read ...

ASK KJ: Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read ...: "Life truly can be amazing if we allow it to be. I have said that more times then even I care to remember but for the most part 8 out of 10 ..."

Life can truly be amazing if you allow it....Read this, it will help!!

Life truly can be amazing if we allow it to be. I have said that more times then even I care to remember but for the most part 8 out of 10 people who read it or hear it, don’t believe it. So I am going to take a moment and explain it just a little further.

I remember very clearly celebrating my 30^th birthday. Not a day I like to remember to be honest. It was probably the worst day of my life. I was leaving the excuse of being in my twenties to not have my shit together and heading to my thirties where there was no more excuses. I was depressed, unhappy, still felt like an abused wife even though I had been out of the abuse for a few years. I was miserable. Understand that it was heightened because it was my birthday but at the end of the line this was how I felt all the time. This is how many of us feel all the time. Miserable, like nothing is going our way and we can’t have what we want.

Brian and I had been together intimately for 4 months and for the most part were doing fine. Great sex, not great communication, and he seemed to have two cute kids. He had started to care about me so much that he tried to get someone who meant the world to me, but I had lost because of my irresponsibility and childish actions over the previous years , to come to the party. Lance didn’t come but the thought was there, without a doubt.

The night of my birthday I was feeling fat, worthless and all around miserable. Within a couple of hours even Brian was second guessing me. It is important to truly believe and understand at this point that you are what you think you are, and your life is what you think it is. You create your outcomes whether you like it or not.

Think of the amount of times you have thought about someone you do not want to talk too and poof the phone rings or you run into them. How about the amount of times you have thought or worried about a bill and the next day it comes in. Sometimes even to the point of being a final notice. Coincidence? All of the synchronicities in the world are just perfect timing? I don’t think so.

We manifest it. Bring it into our reality. Yes it is true that on occasion we can think of something as a pre warning or an intuitive thought but even your intuition is manifestation.

That night with me feeling fat and useless even Brian who obviously had some feelings for me took me outside to tell me he didn’t think this would work because he was not attracted to me. I was too big for his liking. Before we want to strike Brian down with lightning, I created this. I even knew it as he was saying it and in 2 minutes I had it turned around. Thank god I know and understand the law of attraction because I cannot imagine spending the last ten years without this man.

Why did my life suck ten years ago? Because I let it. Simple really. No matter what I was doing in my life. Getting up, working, raising my kids, working, using Brian as my toy, working….it was not what I was supposed to be working on., There was no real effort. Lots of drama, lots of poor me, but no real effort. I allowed my self to manifest a life I didn’t want. I allowed my excuses to rule me.

After that night I realized what I was doing and it all changed. That is all it really takes. Realizing what you are doing and doing something to change it. Even when you don’t know what to do. I concentrated on what I did love in my life. I concentrated on Brian and my kids and started working on the rest. When clients walked in my door they got more attention. More of me. When my friends were in need they got my undivided attention. I started treating everything how I would want to it to be for me. Even my kids got a break from crazy lady to lets sit and talk about it.

Within three months Brian and I were living together and his two kids had moved with us. They became my two kids. Within 6 months we had bought our first home, a new car and my business had doubled. And now today.

Within ten years my life went from miserable to FREAKING AMAZING!

I am married to my twin soul, had a wedding to die for. We have 4 of our own children that complete me. Ashley, Eddie, Ashley and Kailyn. We adopted a boy that moves me in a way most could never understand. My Dylan. We have taken in our oldest daughters best friend who is without question on of our children. Brian’s Jennifer. We have three unbelievable in law children. Matt: you are so good for Jenn. We love you…..Amanda: You are mine what more can I say. I adore you. Corey: you make our family so much more complete. There is not enough thank you’s for bringing our daughter home.

We have two grandbabies that are beyond our expectations. One was even given my middle name and with the grace of god sleeps at Grandma’s all the time. We own a beautiful home with a pool in the back, pool table in the living room, every guitar hero you could think of and many of our children. We drive gorgeous vehicles and every day get to wake up doing what we love. We have a TV show that is going national. People we work with that inspire us. I have a Producer and Camera man that defy the law of talent. They are beyond gifted in their field. Last but not least, I have people all over the world that not only know my name, but respect me and listen when I try to help them.

So today on my 40^th birthday I have only a few things to say. Wake up every day knowing you are in control of the life you have, over how it will be and what you can do. Never forget to thank god, the Universe or Flying Fairies if that is what you want to call it, for everything you have and can have because it is all gifts.

The law of attraction and manifestation is the only law you need to ever really understand and if you do not know what to do with your life, go see someone like me to figure it out. And last but not least. I am thrilled to be 40 because these last ten years have been beyond perfect. The next ten are going to be even better and I love manifesting my future. You will too.

No matter where you are in your life right now, no matter how overwhelming it all seems. Your Freaking Amazing is only thought patterns away.