This is going to be very personal for me. But sometimes you just gotta do something different to get a different result...*wink*
I have shared many times, how lucky I am at meeting and marrying my twin soul. I do not mention it to brag, honest to god even though I would about him any day.. I actually share about him because I believe that if I can show you what I say works the average person will have more faith in their life and because they will see what I never did before I met him. That twin souls do exist.
Because I am so blessed to have a lot of listeners and fans...something I still cannot wrap my head around. I have the opportunity to share with all of you single ladies that an amazing man really does exist, and I can say for a fact more than one. As I personally know a few....hundred....*grin* I should probably get to the point.
I hear women say they are looking for their twin soul every day, but they are impossible to find. I personally believe that we are either not really looking for that or we have no idea what that looks like.
I know some of the most amazing men, but the two that are the most important other than my kids to me is without question my husband, whom I adore. and my best Male friend.
Right now I want to talk about my best Male friend....
I have discovered over the years that men are looking for the exact same thing women are. They want to be loved just as much, wanted and needed just as much.
My best male friend is no exception to this rule. However, like you ladies it is hard to find that woman that can rock his world. Let's face it, with a best friend like Kjarlune Rae, looking for what will do??? Not even an option....lol...and not only because I am bossy, *grin* but also because he witnesses a great relationship every day with his sister, that would be me, and his close friend and brother...that would be my husband.
Like most of you he is looking in all the wrong places. Or just not noticing in all the right places, either way it breaks my heart because I hear women say they want perfect and for the right woman he is, but hasn't found her yet.
I feel this overwhelming need and I hope he does not get mad at me, *gulp* to share about a man I know so well.
We want a man who is kind, loyal, understanding, and supportive and he is. He is also sensitive, and gives of himself without conditions. He is a half time/full time father and on many occasion I refer to him for advice on how to deal with one of my kids because he is a without words can describe dad.
We want a man who can stand his own and he does, but he also stands beside you with respect and adoration, all the while making sure you know how he feels about you at all times. This is one quality I discovered from Brian, my husband, is one of the most important things in a relationship. They need to stand by you no matter what, not always tell you that you are right, because we aren't but even when you are wrong, they support and acknowledge your efforts. He, my friend, never leaves any room for doubt about how he feels about something, always with the respect to review and try to put himself in someone Else's shoes. He takes the time to learn everything about you, what you require.
Just an example he was shopping with a friend of ours the other day and was in a plus size store. He finds beauty in all woman however he takes the time to take care of himself and so is attracted to fit women. Anyways he put himself in larger women's shoes in his head for a while and decided that plus size clothing stores just don't get it. What bigger women need to feel sexier and better. Hello, talk about a blow the mind kind of conversation.
We want a man who can stand out from a crowd. Not because everyone is staring but because he is confident enough to be noticed. I have watched him talk to almost every walk of life, every type of person, standing tall and giving respect. Always being noticed even when he didn't know it. He always makes sure the people around him feel wanted and important. But stands his ground and agrees to disagree if it is not what he believes. I have watched him when attracted to a woman always have some sort of contact when out in public. I don't know about you but when my husband has his hand on my lower back or always touches me I feel like the most important woman in the world. Every woman should need this and my friend does it without even thinking.
He was raised by a single mom, I don't know if that matters to anyone else, but I have never met a man raised by a single mom that does not have unbelievable respect for the female raise. An amazing mom if the truth be told and he makes a point of sharing that with her any chance he gets. Sounds like a mamas boy doesn't it? It isn't though, Just healthy respect and admiration for a woman who sacrificed to make him a better man.
We love a sense of humor, man he makes me kill myself laughing all the time. He is pretty good and joining in with Brian to drive me insane too but let's be honest without that we ladies would have nothing to bitch about on a ongoing basis. LOL...
We want a mans man, who is comfortable in their sexuality. He rides a bike.......looks like a man that should not be messed with, until he smiles then you just know he is a softy. No question he fits the rugged that most women want.
We want someone who can take care of things. He owns his own home, can fix anything and can cook and does all of his own cleaning. Never has he showed up to see me without a tea from Timmy's and a huge hug.
Parties, not too much, cuddles, gives attention, loves without condition, always makes me feel safe and like I am important. ( I am very lucky, an amazing husband and a killer best male friend.) and he is alone. I don't get it.
I could truthfully write about him for hours because I know him well. What I don't understand is how he can be single. It probably looks like I am writing a woman wanted add and in part I suppose I am, because I just want to see him happy. But this is also about finding a way to get all the single ladies out their out of the belief system that great guys do exist. I don't want to see him with just anyone, she has to be spectacular. But he is such a good guy and should not be single.
I want to see everyone in this world with that perfect person, that one that completes you and makes you feel like you could climb the biggest mountain and succeed.
He tries so hard to show me that he is fine, that he is happy and for the most part I believe he is, but sometimes, not having that someone is killer on him and all of you. Especially when you see people happy and in love. I give him so much credit, it would drive me crazy and for him it never does, or at least he never shows it.
The truth is their is more than one great man out looking for his twin, there is many. Ladies give these men a chance they just might own a white horse.
If you are an amazing, fit, woman who is interested in meeting a man I adore I am willing to share my friend. He truly is beyond words, send me a message, I might hook you up with my best friend. Oh and ladies, trust me on this, he does not need me to set him up...he is very good looking. I am married, not dead....lol...*grin* Even my husband would have to concede, he is a good looking man!
A ginger, Love you R, but a good looking man. lol...
To my friend, I love you, you mean the world to me, I thank god, and my soul family every day for us crossing paths. She is out there, I promise, and I won't rest either till you find her. That my friend is a wedding, I am most looking forward too. The thought of sharing you when I have been so lucky, doesn't thrill me, but I still have my husband so I will make it through. I sure hope he doesn't get mad at me, because I am attaching pictures!!!!! In the next couple of days....
hugs single laides, KJ
