It doesn't matter who we are. How well we know ourselves. How in tune we might be. Falling into the trap of being stagnant is a problem for everyone.Staying motivated and being motivated can take a lot out of a person.
Life can and unfortunately does get in the way. I know for me one thing leads to another and before I know it, six months and not one chapter written. A year and nothing has changed.
It would surprise some of you, I am sure, to know that most of the time, knowing what you need to do, or want to do is not actually the problem. The problem is taking it from the thought in your head to the reality of your world.
Just like most of you I have used the excuse of being too busy. I say excuse because, and this is the same for all of you. It is an excuse.
Sure life is busy, absolutely our kids get in the way, our life takes over, work drains us, extra hours, blah blah blah, but here is the deal. If we have time to go on Facebook, watch a TV show, soak in a tub, wash our cars, etc, then we have time to get what we want done, done!
The trouble is falling into the trap of not having the energy. I am so tired, I am not sleeping properly, I am feeling so blah, I have a hard time getting out of bed. We all feel it and when we do, there goes any energy.
So it then falls into, I will do it tomorrow, I will get my finances figured out tomorrow, I will write that letter tomorrow, I will look for that tomorrow. Tomorrow never comes. You have Yesterday and it is already gone so what you did cannot be taken back, and Today, which is what matters. Say tomorrow all you want but when you open your eyes it will be today.
So, why have I not expanded the business more? Gotten the writing done, had that much needed talk with my 16 year old, moved into the acreage, re organized my world, had some quality time with my husband????? Because I kept waiting for tomorrow.
You know what I have to say to that? No More DAMMIT! I am not waiting another day to get started on what I have wanted to work on for forever and either should you.
This is what we don't understand, we think we are too tired, think we do not have time, frankly we think way to damn much. The truth is getting some things done, makes you feel better, not procrastinating gives you more energy, more energy gets things done faster, and before you know it you are exactly where you want to be.
I would love to tell you it is as easy as getting our lazy asses up and moving but if that was the case, well we wouldn't procrastinate....
It takes more than that but the good side is that it isn't painful.
For me, I needed to look at what was causing me to procrastinate and the truth was it was having a home office. I have to be honest and actually say that having a home office was a great excuse. I have no doubt fear played a pretty big role here.
For most of us it is because we are stuck, afraid, need some push.
The reality is I have nothing to fear, and if I just concentrate on what I am wanting to do and not on the end result it can happen without me even registering it. Once things are where they are supposed to be well, we are human and have this great ability to adapt. SO I will adapt and so will you.
If we drop things down to the simple accomplishment of it then we can get it done.
So instead of dwelling and dealing in the fear I went with what I could handle. The home office.
Simple really, I moved my office. Moved my computer, all of my files, all of my working on projects.
As it turns out a persons energy really does start to get charged up when you make a change. My to do list has already dwindled, accomplishments are being made and I am feeling Fan-freaking-tastic.
Change your environment. If you have everything locked up in a room of the house you can avoid, move it to your kitchen table. It will drive you crazy and you will have to get it done. If you cannot get motivated at home, go find a great coffee shop or escape to get it done. No more excuses.
If you are feeling frumpy and not getting anything done, go change your hair, buy a new outfit and get on with it. You are your own worst enemy.
I have been in my new office since Friday, and this is what I have done. Affirmations DONE. Wall sense with KJ, created and DONE. Lip sense with KJ, created and DONE! Vlogging almost set up and done. Book, two new chapters DONE! Energy? OMG you have no idea, I am up in the morning, the MORNING??? if you knew me you would know the morning, anytime in the morning, is for sleeping. Or at least it was. The best part about all of this. My kids and my husband have seen me more. I have been able to have two birthday get tog ethers, nothing has suffered and everyone around me has gained.
The first trick is to change up the environment that has you in a slump, the second trick, no more excuses. Third get excited, fourth, do not even think about the fears, you will adapt. Five, take a look around because you will be happier and calmer.
It is never to late to start over, never to late to redo things, never too late to want more, never to late to make things happen. It is Never To Late for A New Beginning.
Love my life. Love yours.
KJ
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
What more can we do!
I hear everywhere. I don’t know if I believe in a soul family. I am not sure if there is something bigger out there than me. How do I know they will look after me?
What if they don’t give me what I ask? What if they listen to everyone but me? How do I know they are listening? What do I ask for? Can I count on them? Man I could list a thousand of questions I am asked on an ongoing basis, all with the intent of looking for proof that there is something bigger out there than us and its job is to look after us.
"I will believe it when I see it." That is one of my favourites.
Every day we do things in our lives. Say things are a certain way and all without seeing proof of it, but the one thing that is your constant, The Universe. Well now let’s sit down and show me some proof.
Picture if you will, your boss at work coming in every afternoon and saying. I don’t believe you have done anything today. Prove it!
Oh sure you say you have, and I know we say we should have faith that you are doing your job. But frankly I don’t know you. I don’t sit with you every moment of your day but I sign your pay check, so show me what you have done. Account every moment of your day for me and I will decide if you are worth believing in or not!
How long would you want to work there...?
Now picture this. Your parents questioning everything you say. Everything you do, every second of every day. Whenever you tell them what you have accomplished, they say prove it. Or better yet your partner in life. Never believing where you have been, what you have been doing or who you have been doing it with.
Would these relationships last long?....I THINK NOT!
I can say that with some conviction because I work in the world where I hear these things all the time.
I see the jobs go, the relationships fail, the families torn apart on an ongoing basis. So I am confident in my understanding that not many of us would tolerate this for an extended period of time.
Well the Universe, souls past before us, our guides are somewhat feeling the same way.
I know as a Clairvoyant I get tired of having to prove myself every step of the way, and I also know that because of my "chosen" profession it comes with the territory. Your guides know this too.
However, here is what is getting them in an uproar!
You know that you need air to breathe. Food to eat. Clothes to wear (outside of a nudist colony), money to pay the bills. You know that you require these things because you have been taught that you need them.
I know, here is a shocker.
There are people out there that do not eat, live in a bubble, don’t live on money etc. Not many I will give you but still. You at some point early on and through your growing up years where shown and told what all of this was.
We believe things without proof all of the time.
A guy dose not call a girl back for weeks and friends convince said girl that he is attracted to her but scared of commitment and she believes it.
Your boss tells you it is not you there are budget cuts and you believe it. You breathe every few seconds yet cannot see the air you are breathing.. You buy a drink at the bar and believe it is not watered down. You buy a car that will get 500 klcks to a tank and you believe it because the salesman said so.
Teacher tells you that your child has learning issues and you believe it because the teacher knows best. Again I could give a thousand things you believe without seeing proof, but the Universe; the people you have loved and lost want to take care of you. Do take care of you every moment of your life and you need to see it before you can believe it?.......Here is there question for you....what the H E double hockey sticks? Actually they are saying What the Fuck?...but the other one sounded better.
You meet a stranger and fall in love where does that come from....?
You get a job after an interview you think went poorly..?.just a run of luck...?
You get approved for a house you don’t think you can approve but absolutely love. Do you think the broker thought you were cute...?
Somehow there is always money when truly needed. You think of someone and the phone rings it is them...A baby grows in someone’s tummy and comes out perfect...You witness and accident right in front of you but you were not involved.... A parent cannot afford a surgery to save their child’s life and the money gets donated....Miracles happen around you every day and yet we wonder if those people we loved and loss are taking care of us.....???
This is what guides have to say.....
"We watch over you every second of every day. Take care of you and keep you from falling so far you can’t get up. We share with you all of the knowledge we have learnt. We keep you company when you are alone. We give you good dreams, and because you can’t see us. You don’t believe in us..."
"We give you signs to show you the right way, and you ignore it. Granted because you say it isn’t obvious enough...will a brick work? We are blamed when you loose control. You should have never taken the control in the first place. If you would have trusted us the lessons would not have been necessary. “
“Someone’s time was up and they came home to us and we are to blame. We didn’t write the contract. We didn’t make the choices. You want to do things your way then you want to blame us when you make the wrong decisions.”
“What more do we have to do for you to know we are hear? What more do we have to show you to know we will take care of you? What more can we do before you believe in us? How much more can we show that we are around? What do you want from us that we do not already give?”
“Life is not about us proving we are around. You have the choice to listen and follow or not believe and struggle. We will not judge you or stop caring because you don’t feel you need us, want us or believe in us. It is okay to be scared of us even though we will never hurt you. But stop using us as your scape goat. We are here.
We are watching. We are helping and you have to make a choice. If you believe you will see, not the other way around. Watch and listen and life will get easier.
Notice the signs and trust we are around and you will never feel along again. Accept our help, without blaming us and we will give more. Listen and we will speak. Hope and we will fulfill. Believe and you will grow.
If you were the ones past on and we were there would you not want us to believe in you? Trust you? Have faith in you? Believe in us and save your world. Religion is preached every day and followers are everywhere, there is no proof, only what you hold in your heart. We are in your heart. We are in your souls and we share your minds.
Love us as we love you and together we will prosper. We are not to blame we are to correct. We are not to hurt we are to give balance. We your loved ones who you miss, who you wish were still alive are still here. You just can’t see us, but give us a fair chance and you will feel us.”
I know one thing for absolute guarantee. I would not be here today if it wasn’t for being watched over. I have been beaten, alone, without, scared, lost, confused, torn, bullied, ridiculed, tortured, abandoned and hurt, no more or less than most but traumatized just the same. If it wasn’t for my soul family I would not be here. They love you, all of you. They are watching and they are here. All you have to do is stop fearing them and start rejoicing that you are not alone. Try something new. Live like you can do anything. Believe in what you cannot see. Hope and dream. Love without reason. Smile because you can and you will see too that you would not be here without them either.
I am not a preacher, nor a teacher. I am a survivor and without my soul family I would be nothing.
Love your life, it is yours the good the bad and the crazy. Try something new the worse thing to happen is it won’t work, but you will end up happier with the experience. Take a chance on something and reap the reward. The proof is around you every where.
So bodes the question. What more do they have to do in order for you to believe they are here and they will help you???????? L M L!
What if they don’t give me what I ask? What if they listen to everyone but me? How do I know they are listening? What do I ask for? Can I count on them? Man I could list a thousand of questions I am asked on an ongoing basis, all with the intent of looking for proof that there is something bigger out there than us and its job is to look after us.
"I will believe it when I see it." That is one of my favourites.
Every day we do things in our lives. Say things are a certain way and all without seeing proof of it, but the one thing that is your constant, The Universe. Well now let’s sit down and show me some proof.
Picture if you will, your boss at work coming in every afternoon and saying. I don’t believe you have done anything today. Prove it!
Oh sure you say you have, and I know we say we should have faith that you are doing your job. But frankly I don’t know you. I don’t sit with you every moment of your day but I sign your pay check, so show me what you have done. Account every moment of your day for me and I will decide if you are worth believing in or not!
How long would you want to work there...?
Now picture this. Your parents questioning everything you say. Everything you do, every second of every day. Whenever you tell them what you have accomplished, they say prove it. Or better yet your partner in life. Never believing where you have been, what you have been doing or who you have been doing it with.
Would these relationships last long?....I THINK NOT!
I can say that with some conviction because I work in the world where I hear these things all the time.
I see the jobs go, the relationships fail, the families torn apart on an ongoing basis. So I am confident in my understanding that not many of us would tolerate this for an extended period of time.
Well the Universe, souls past before us, our guides are somewhat feeling the same way.
I know as a Clairvoyant I get tired of having to prove myself every step of the way, and I also know that because of my "chosen" profession it comes with the territory. Your guides know this too.
However, here is what is getting them in an uproar!
You know that you need air to breathe. Food to eat. Clothes to wear (outside of a nudist colony), money to pay the bills. You know that you require these things because you have been taught that you need them.
I know, here is a shocker.
There are people out there that do not eat, live in a bubble, don’t live on money etc. Not many I will give you but still. You at some point early on and through your growing up years where shown and told what all of this was.
We believe things without proof all of the time.
A guy dose not call a girl back for weeks and friends convince said girl that he is attracted to her but scared of commitment and she believes it.
Your boss tells you it is not you there are budget cuts and you believe it. You breathe every few seconds yet cannot see the air you are breathing.. You buy a drink at the bar and believe it is not watered down. You buy a car that will get 500 klcks to a tank and you believe it because the salesman said so.
Teacher tells you that your child has learning issues and you believe it because the teacher knows best. Again I could give a thousand things you believe without seeing proof, but the Universe; the people you have loved and lost want to take care of you. Do take care of you every moment of your life and you need to see it before you can believe it?.......Here is there question for you....what the H E double hockey sticks? Actually they are saying What the Fuck?...but the other one sounded better.
You meet a stranger and fall in love where does that come from....?
You get a job after an interview you think went poorly..?.just a run of luck...?
You get approved for a house you don’t think you can approve but absolutely love. Do you think the broker thought you were cute...?
Somehow there is always money when truly needed. You think of someone and the phone rings it is them...A baby grows in someone’s tummy and comes out perfect...You witness and accident right in front of you but you were not involved.... A parent cannot afford a surgery to save their child’s life and the money gets donated....Miracles happen around you every day and yet we wonder if those people we loved and loss are taking care of us.....???
This is what guides have to say.....
"We watch over you every second of every day. Take care of you and keep you from falling so far you can’t get up. We share with you all of the knowledge we have learnt. We keep you company when you are alone. We give you good dreams, and because you can’t see us. You don’t believe in us..."
"We give you signs to show you the right way, and you ignore it. Granted because you say it isn’t obvious enough...will a brick work? We are blamed when you loose control. You should have never taken the control in the first place. If you would have trusted us the lessons would not have been necessary. “
“Someone’s time was up and they came home to us and we are to blame. We didn’t write the contract. We didn’t make the choices. You want to do things your way then you want to blame us when you make the wrong decisions.”
“What more do we have to do for you to know we are hear? What more do we have to show you to know we will take care of you? What more can we do before you believe in us? How much more can we show that we are around? What do you want from us that we do not already give?”
“Life is not about us proving we are around. You have the choice to listen and follow or not believe and struggle. We will not judge you or stop caring because you don’t feel you need us, want us or believe in us. It is okay to be scared of us even though we will never hurt you. But stop using us as your scape goat. We are here.
We are watching. We are helping and you have to make a choice. If you believe you will see, not the other way around. Watch and listen and life will get easier.
Notice the signs and trust we are around and you will never feel along again. Accept our help, without blaming us and we will give more. Listen and we will speak. Hope and we will fulfill. Believe and you will grow.
If you were the ones past on and we were there would you not want us to believe in you? Trust you? Have faith in you? Believe in us and save your world. Religion is preached every day and followers are everywhere, there is no proof, only what you hold in your heart. We are in your heart. We are in your souls and we share your minds.
Love us as we love you and together we will prosper. We are not to blame we are to correct. We are not to hurt we are to give balance. We your loved ones who you miss, who you wish were still alive are still here. You just can’t see us, but give us a fair chance and you will feel us.”
I know one thing for absolute guarantee. I would not be here today if it wasn’t for being watched over. I have been beaten, alone, without, scared, lost, confused, torn, bullied, ridiculed, tortured, abandoned and hurt, no more or less than most but traumatized just the same. If it wasn’t for my soul family I would not be here. They love you, all of you. They are watching and they are here. All you have to do is stop fearing them and start rejoicing that you are not alone. Try something new. Live like you can do anything. Believe in what you cannot see. Hope and dream. Love without reason. Smile because you can and you will see too that you would not be here without them either.
I am not a preacher, nor a teacher. I am a survivor and without my soul family I would be nothing.
Love your life, it is yours the good the bad and the crazy. Try something new the worse thing to happen is it won’t work, but you will end up happier with the experience. Take a chance on something and reap the reward. The proof is around you every where.
So bodes the question. What more do they have to do in order for you to believe they are here and they will help you???????? L M L!
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
There is more to a reading than meets the eye!
I am often asked why does someone go see a Psychic and to be honest the answer varies. Some just for a sense of relief. Some to gain some understanding. The odd one wants to hear what they want will happen. For the most part though just some hope and direction.
I am mot going to lie to you. I don't go to many psychics. Not because I don't want the help but because the psychic/healing world is a tuff nut to crack. You think competition in the workplace is hard in the real world? It hasn't got anything on the ego of the Meta physicals.
I am the best, No I am. You don't know how to read, I know how to read. Whatever psychic told you that is a quack. "Kjarlune Rae? Please she doesn't know shit!" I have heard and seen in all in the world I work very hard to not associate in.
I would love to tell you that we are all in this for the love of it, the shear joy of helping people. I would love to tell you that we all have the best intentions. That we all take so much pride in our jobs that we think of you before anything else. I would love to tell you this world is full of Rainbows and butterflies but alas, I would be lying.
Ego is a terrible thing. No matter who you are or what you do.
The truth is that a psychic or healer has the same chances of saving the world as a Dr. has of never seeing a patient die.
Psychics and Healers whether you believe in them or not should be held at a higher level of accountability. We are human yes, but like a Dr. you should be able to count on us. Depend on us to at least do our best. At least give our all.
Psychics and Healers are held to a higher level of accountability by the Universe. What we say and what we do is a measure on how our life goes. No one can guarantee you that what they say is 100% right but if you have found a psychic or healer that you want to check out make sure they live by AND IT HARM NONE!
Our job in the Metaphysical Holistic world is to support, understand and love un- conditionally. No matter who you are or where you come from. We are your safe zone. Or at least we better be.
A reading is more than what does your future hold. It is a place where you can gain answers to your life`s problem. A solution for what you keep tripping over. It is not about Ego or about being right. It is about being helpful. Whether it is that kick in the ass you desperately need but no one else will give,or that new perspective that makes every block of your life fall into place.
A reading is about finding solutions and road maps to get you on your chosen or contracted road. It is up to you what you will do with the information once you get it but we are the front line. If our ego, and opinions get in the way then we are leading you down a garden path and that is punishable by The Universe and Fate.
You are entitled to ask questions about your psychic or healers life because if they are living on the right side of The Universe, the blessings are every where around them.
What we do we get back is the most important thing to remember when seeing a healer. We are not witches, nor god. We cannot force or demand, we can only share. The life your psychic or healer has is a gift from their clients. Whether it be a happy home or money in the bank they didn`t get it alone. You the ones who trust us supplied and for that we should always hold onto humility and thankfulness.
A reading or healing can and will change your life if you and your healer allow it. We share everything that we are and support and understand you in every way that you don`t. The future cannot exist without some faith and belief and neither can we.
We take your life in our hands whether you realize it or not. We are the holders of answers if we are open enough to receive them. Not everyone is great with numbers, not everyone can help the elderly die and not everyone can heal and read but we are all born with gifts. All born with a purpose to full fill and a life contract to complete.
You don`t buy a car without checking into it. Don`t pick a healer or psychic without some knowledge because there is more to a reading or healing than meets the eye. Life change and life`s blessings are around us everywhere. If you allow it.
Thank you. Thank you for my life, thank you for your trust. Thank you for your faith. Please never question. Whether I know you or I don`t I love you too.
I am mot going to lie to you. I don't go to many psychics. Not because I don't want the help but because the psychic/healing world is a tuff nut to crack. You think competition in the workplace is hard in the real world? It hasn't got anything on the ego of the Meta physicals.
I am the best, No I am. You don't know how to read, I know how to read. Whatever psychic told you that is a quack. "Kjarlune Rae? Please she doesn't know shit!" I have heard and seen in all in the world I work very hard to not associate in.
I would love to tell you that we are all in this for the love of it, the shear joy of helping people. I would love to tell you that we all have the best intentions. That we all take so much pride in our jobs that we think of you before anything else. I would love to tell you this world is full of Rainbows and butterflies but alas, I would be lying.
Ego is a terrible thing. No matter who you are or what you do.
The truth is that a psychic or healer has the same chances of saving the world as a Dr. has of never seeing a patient die.
Psychics and Healers whether you believe in them or not should be held at a higher level of accountability. We are human yes, but like a Dr. you should be able to count on us. Depend on us to at least do our best. At least give our all.
Psychics and Healers are held to a higher level of accountability by the Universe. What we say and what we do is a measure on how our life goes. No one can guarantee you that what they say is 100% right but if you have found a psychic or healer that you want to check out make sure they live by AND IT HARM NONE!
Our job in the Metaphysical Holistic world is to support, understand and love un- conditionally. No matter who you are or where you come from. We are your safe zone. Or at least we better be.
A reading is more than what does your future hold. It is a place where you can gain answers to your life`s problem. A solution for what you keep tripping over. It is not about Ego or about being right. It is about being helpful. Whether it is that kick in the ass you desperately need but no one else will give,or that new perspective that makes every block of your life fall into place.
A reading is about finding solutions and road maps to get you on your chosen or contracted road. It is up to you what you will do with the information once you get it but we are the front line. If our ego, and opinions get in the way then we are leading you down a garden path and that is punishable by The Universe and Fate.
You are entitled to ask questions about your psychic or healers life because if they are living on the right side of The Universe, the blessings are every where around them.
What we do we get back is the most important thing to remember when seeing a healer. We are not witches, nor god. We cannot force or demand, we can only share. The life your psychic or healer has is a gift from their clients. Whether it be a happy home or money in the bank they didn`t get it alone. You the ones who trust us supplied and for that we should always hold onto humility and thankfulness.
A reading or healing can and will change your life if you and your healer allow it. We share everything that we are and support and understand you in every way that you don`t. The future cannot exist without some faith and belief and neither can we.
We take your life in our hands whether you realize it or not. We are the holders of answers if we are open enough to receive them. Not everyone is great with numbers, not everyone can help the elderly die and not everyone can heal and read but we are all born with gifts. All born with a purpose to full fill and a life contract to complete.
You don`t buy a car without checking into it. Don`t pick a healer or psychic without some knowledge because there is more to a reading or healing than meets the eye. Life change and life`s blessings are around us everywhere. If you allow it.
Thank you. Thank you for my life, thank you for your trust. Thank you for your faith. Please never question. Whether I know you or I don`t I love you too.
Become your OWN LIFE DESIGER!
We all have dreams. We all have wants and we all have needs. It is easy to forget what our goals are and turn them into a day dream. Only to turn them into our never happening instead of look what I have done.
Accomplishment and making things happen is the purpose of life. Learn our lessons get past them and create an amazing life is the ultimate goal. When our head gets in the way life does not go according to plan.
Vision boards are a amazing way to keep the goals in focus but we either never do them, or hide them. Energy is what makes things happen and you should be proud and want to share every goal or desire you have.
So let’s change the cycle of dreaming and not following through.
A client came in today with the goal of opening her own business, like the rest of us, bills, kids and life get in the way. Other priorities hit and other needs take over.
I suggested to her and now suggest it to all of you, Create a 3d vision board or many, one for each big goal.
For her it is create the coffee shop on paper, color pain swatches, design ideas, fabric swatches for the chairs. Create the vision. Then put in a shadow box and display it! Share it with the world who walks through your house.
Not only a goal but a gorgeous unique piece of ART! Be proud of what you want. Share who you are. Have it out in the open, Become the artist of your life, make your home your temple of desires, share because it is who you are and you will never forget.
If you never forget you will create! It is that simple. What starts as a shadow box becomes reality! GUARANTEED!
LML
Become your own personal life DESIGNER! Get creative, and stop saying you can’t!
Monday, July 5, 2010
Never to late!
Life has a tendency of getting in the way, or taking off into a direction you didn’t expect. Like having kids and not being able to fulfill your life long career goals because the food on the table became the priority.
Or taking on the good job and buying a home, meeting someone and making house instead of traveling the world and seeing what awaits you. No matter what the reason, or what the excuse it is not uncommon to feel like your life has slipped away without you reaching the big goal, accomplishing the big dream.
It is not unnatural to fall into the comfort zone of your life, whether happy or not, excited or not, what you want or not.
It is however your choice of whether you will grow old and be happy with the twists and winding road you have followed, or whether you will do what has to be done till the family can tend to themselves, and it is your turn.
It is never too late to go after a dream, no matter what your life has been or what trials you have had to face..
Stop blaming the world and start living.
Go back to school if that is the dream, borrow, or beg for the money it doesn’t matter make it happen.
Sell the house and travel the world, it is one year of your life you will never forget.
It is never to late to follow a dream, never to late to make it your life!
Or taking on the good job and buying a home, meeting someone and making house instead of traveling the world and seeing what awaits you. No matter what the reason, or what the excuse it is not uncommon to feel like your life has slipped away without you reaching the big goal, accomplishing the big dream.
It is not unnatural to fall into the comfort zone of your life, whether happy or not, excited or not, what you want or not.
It is however your choice of whether you will grow old and be happy with the twists and winding road you have followed, or whether you will do what has to be done till the family can tend to themselves, and it is your turn.
It is never too late to go after a dream, no matter what your life has been or what trials you have had to face..
Stop blaming the world and start living.
Go back to school if that is the dream, borrow, or beg for the money it doesn’t matter make it happen.
Sell the house and travel the world, it is one year of your life you will never forget.
It is never to late to follow a dream, never to late to make it your life!
Truth/Myth of the Psychic
Lack of knowledge leaves us unarmed. The sad truth to this statement is that we have been told or shown that so many things are a certain way that we have come to believe it, without merit or confirmation.
Coming from a religious background, or at least one when I was with my other family on summer holidays even I was left with a bitter taste in my mouth for psychics. I was raised with a belief system that left me with the understanding that a psychic is a fortune teller and that is a sin.
Not to mention and this might come as a surprise to some, but even someone as out there like myself could not possibly wrap my head around laying down some cards, or swirling your hand around a crystal ball like the movies, could come anywhere close to being legitimate. The truth is I still don’t believe that illusion is real.
The reality is that the “version” of what a “psychic” has been portrayed to be is totally and completely a load of crap and is not real. Of course that might explain why so many people try to bunk it.
The sad truth however is that being perceptive, being able to see things in a different light, being able to feel everything another person is feeling is very much a possibility and reality.
Anyone who has ever been in a relationship or had a family and knew when someone was coming home because they could feel them, or knew when they were unhappy or mad, or sad or confused without them saying a word can testify that it is a possibility. Seeing as how every one of you reading this have had those feelings once or twice in your life, I would have to say you personally can testify that it makes sense, if you think about it you could say it is a probability.
Think about this, if there is a remote possibility that God exists. That there is something past dying. That you do not just turn to dust and evaporate, with no reason for your existence at all. Then how does it not make sense that there are people that can feel, understand and communicate with what many would class as heaven.
Now take that a step further for just a moment with me, if there is more out there and that more is not restricted by their bodies, if the theory is correct that there is life after death, no more personal, If you had life after death, would you want to stay mute for all eternity? Have no one hear what you know? Share with no one your understandings from there? Not help the man kind you left?
Look at natural disaster; it is our nature, our need to help strangers we don’t know here on earth, if you were passed on would you not want to communicate with those you love? Help any way you can?
Not many people are going to say no here.
There are masterminds through out our entire history. Brilliant off the chart people with ideas that have revolutionized our world and it is a hard stretch to believe that a person’s brain has the ability to expand past the typical limits and find answers we are searching for?
See the problem is not whether it is possible, we all know or would have to come the conclusion that it is. The problem is just like Newton was classed as crazy, people have created a fictitious knowledge base about what a “psychic” is and what they can do.
It really is the movies when a gypsy runs her hands over the crystal ball and oooooooooooo tells you your future. It really is not true that we are witches and can cast a spell on you and it is not possible to MAKE things happen for someone else.
That is not a “psychic” and it is time to debunk the myths because knowledge is freedom.
Like any other type of work in this world there truly is phoney people trying to make a buck off of someone else’s needs. That cannot be surprising, financial institutions make money off of your hard work. Not a slam just reality. There are criminals everywhere, why wouldn’t there be fake psychics?
Just like it is not true that every Native American are alcoholics, not every psychic is a fraud and just like Native Americans get a bad wrap for the ones who don’t care and take advantage so do the real psychics.
Anyone can learn to become more aware, to broaden their mind capability just like believe it or not everyone with the same training can sing, sure for some it is easier than others.
The truth is that a “psychic” no matter what the form, Clairvoyant, Empathic, reader, seer, whatever starts from a place of unconditional love. We start with a sense of caring that reaches beyond, color, size, looks, surface.
When you truly care about someone you can easily see past the “exterior” what is shown and can see what you know. The real person, the inside workings, that make them who they are.
If you are not emotionally involved with that person, and this is for the record where the “psychic” part comes in, then it is not complicated to see where their road is headed.
Just like if you are not emotionally involved with the loved one who is sitting in heaven it is easier to communicate with them. There is no fear, love, cynicism, emotion that gets in the way of being able to hear them.
Have you not ever been somewhere and felt like you were not alone? Or had a feeling you should call someone or say something, maybe do something. We all do it, but unlike when you are involved a “psychic” or what I prefer “intuitive” does not have the fear to get in the way.
Don’t fool yourself, I cannot tell my future. I am no different than you I can hardly tell my present and my past hurts just as much as some of yours. An Intuitive is no different than anyone else.
When you get past the barrier of the emotion, it is easier to create a plan, find a solution and guide someone into a direction. “Psychic” is simply another form of how our mind works. Like everything else there is a little more to it but that is where people get the most lost.
It is time to break through the scepticism, time to gain the understanding because psychics are not going away. Our children are being born more intuitive. Our world needs help and being able to communicate with the people of our past will help us!
Isn’t that everyone is looking for? A little help.
The reason people go to us is not so that we can brain wash them, it is so we can help. Life takes over and as most know can get a little out of hand. You can go see a therapist and work through it on your own after years and years or you can go see someone that can get through the crap and give you the tools you need to get going, faster, with less pain and less confusion.
Psychics can be wrong, we are only human, but when you don’t follow the advice how can you get the result? Just like loosing weight there is NO MAGICK PILL!! Only tools, and with the right advice the tools are easy to use! A psychic simply makes it make sense!
There you have it, the truth about psychics, at least the easiest way to understand them. If you cannot wrap your mind around a mathematician or a scientist you are never going to fully wrap your mind around the brains potential.
It’s up to you what you believe. I cannot convince you nor sway you, all I can say is I am a “psychic” and I can guarantee there is nothing freaky or godly or evil about me or anyone else that genuinely cares enough to look into your future.
Like a dear friend of mine wrote : KJ is a friend to some, confidant to most and counsellor to others. But she's real, and has her own life to live.
Psychics/Clairvoyants/readers WHATEVER, is real, it is the gypsy costumes, the “ I channel arc angel Michael” “oooo I can save your life” “mystical misunderstandings” that is a load of crap! In my opinion…
Coming from a religious background, or at least one when I was with my other family on summer holidays even I was left with a bitter taste in my mouth for psychics. I was raised with a belief system that left me with the understanding that a psychic is a fortune teller and that is a sin.
Not to mention and this might come as a surprise to some, but even someone as out there like myself could not possibly wrap my head around laying down some cards, or swirling your hand around a crystal ball like the movies, could come anywhere close to being legitimate. The truth is I still don’t believe that illusion is real.
The reality is that the “version” of what a “psychic” has been portrayed to be is totally and completely a load of crap and is not real. Of course that might explain why so many people try to bunk it.
The sad truth however is that being perceptive, being able to see things in a different light, being able to feel everything another person is feeling is very much a possibility and reality.
Anyone who has ever been in a relationship or had a family and knew when someone was coming home because they could feel them, or knew when they were unhappy or mad, or sad or confused without them saying a word can testify that it is a possibility. Seeing as how every one of you reading this have had those feelings once or twice in your life, I would have to say you personally can testify that it makes sense, if you think about it you could say it is a probability.
Think about this, if there is a remote possibility that God exists. That there is something past dying. That you do not just turn to dust and evaporate, with no reason for your existence at all. Then how does it not make sense that there are people that can feel, understand and communicate with what many would class as heaven.
Now take that a step further for just a moment with me, if there is more out there and that more is not restricted by their bodies, if the theory is correct that there is life after death, no more personal, If you had life after death, would you want to stay mute for all eternity? Have no one hear what you know? Share with no one your understandings from there? Not help the man kind you left?
Look at natural disaster; it is our nature, our need to help strangers we don’t know here on earth, if you were passed on would you not want to communicate with those you love? Help any way you can?
Not many people are going to say no here.
There are masterminds through out our entire history. Brilliant off the chart people with ideas that have revolutionized our world and it is a hard stretch to believe that a person’s brain has the ability to expand past the typical limits and find answers we are searching for?
See the problem is not whether it is possible, we all know or would have to come the conclusion that it is. The problem is just like Newton was classed as crazy, people have created a fictitious knowledge base about what a “psychic” is and what they can do.
It really is the movies when a gypsy runs her hands over the crystal ball and oooooooooooo tells you your future. It really is not true that we are witches and can cast a spell on you and it is not possible to MAKE things happen for someone else.
That is not a “psychic” and it is time to debunk the myths because knowledge is freedom.
Like any other type of work in this world there truly is phoney people trying to make a buck off of someone else’s needs. That cannot be surprising, financial institutions make money off of your hard work. Not a slam just reality. There are criminals everywhere, why wouldn’t there be fake psychics?
Just like it is not true that every Native American are alcoholics, not every psychic is a fraud and just like Native Americans get a bad wrap for the ones who don’t care and take advantage so do the real psychics.
Anyone can learn to become more aware, to broaden their mind capability just like believe it or not everyone with the same training can sing, sure for some it is easier than others.
The truth is that a “psychic” no matter what the form, Clairvoyant, Empathic, reader, seer, whatever starts from a place of unconditional love. We start with a sense of caring that reaches beyond, color, size, looks, surface.
When you truly care about someone you can easily see past the “exterior” what is shown and can see what you know. The real person, the inside workings, that make them who they are.
If you are not emotionally involved with that person, and this is for the record where the “psychic” part comes in, then it is not complicated to see where their road is headed.
Just like if you are not emotionally involved with the loved one who is sitting in heaven it is easier to communicate with them. There is no fear, love, cynicism, emotion that gets in the way of being able to hear them.
Have you not ever been somewhere and felt like you were not alone? Or had a feeling you should call someone or say something, maybe do something. We all do it, but unlike when you are involved a “psychic” or what I prefer “intuitive” does not have the fear to get in the way.
Don’t fool yourself, I cannot tell my future. I am no different than you I can hardly tell my present and my past hurts just as much as some of yours. An Intuitive is no different than anyone else.
When you get past the barrier of the emotion, it is easier to create a plan, find a solution and guide someone into a direction. “Psychic” is simply another form of how our mind works. Like everything else there is a little more to it but that is where people get the most lost.
It is time to break through the scepticism, time to gain the understanding because psychics are not going away. Our children are being born more intuitive. Our world needs help and being able to communicate with the people of our past will help us!
Isn’t that everyone is looking for? A little help.
The reason people go to us is not so that we can brain wash them, it is so we can help. Life takes over and as most know can get a little out of hand. You can go see a therapist and work through it on your own after years and years or you can go see someone that can get through the crap and give you the tools you need to get going, faster, with less pain and less confusion.
Psychics can be wrong, we are only human, but when you don’t follow the advice how can you get the result? Just like loosing weight there is NO MAGICK PILL!! Only tools, and with the right advice the tools are easy to use! A psychic simply makes it make sense!
There you have it, the truth about psychics, at least the easiest way to understand them. If you cannot wrap your mind around a mathematician or a scientist you are never going to fully wrap your mind around the brains potential.
It’s up to you what you believe. I cannot convince you nor sway you, all I can say is I am a “psychic” and I can guarantee there is nothing freaky or godly or evil about me or anyone else that genuinely cares enough to look into your future.
Like a dear friend of mine wrote : KJ is a friend to some, confidant to most and counsellor to others. But she's real, and has her own life to live.
Psychics/Clairvoyants/readers WHATEVER, is real, it is the gypsy costumes, the “ I channel arc angel Michael” “oooo I can save your life” “mystical misunderstandings” that is a load of crap! In my opinion…
Ring around the Rosy
Ring around the rosy,
Pocket full of posy,
Husha, husha,
We all fall down.
Even our childhood games mimic where we are headed in life.
Cycles that continually repeat themselves. Growing up we have been taught to not stop, push ahead and accomplish your goals, what has come of this is the cycle.
Continually doing the same thing, hoping, no not even hoping worse than that, EXPECTING a different result.
Here is the thing. If you go around in circles, attracting yourself to the same thing/or same type of people just with different names, then even the childhood rhyme tells you that you are going to fall down!
We have the ability to try, something we are born with, but we must create the ability inside ourselves to walk away from what doesn’t work.
If you don’t then each time you go around in the circle the fall gets harder and more painful.
The secret is to try everything once, only hold onto what works. Let go of what doesn’t, and enjoy the road you have taken to get there.
Simple really, break the cycle, stop running around in circles, take the time to mentally digest what you have tried and what you have succeeded.
Give yourself and those around you the benefit of the doubt. Stupidity only comes into play when you continue doing the same thing. Stop the beat up and start the change!
Pocket full of posy,
Husha, husha,
We all fall down.
Even our childhood games mimic where we are headed in life.
Cycles that continually repeat themselves. Growing up we have been taught to not stop, push ahead and accomplish your goals, what has come of this is the cycle.
Continually doing the same thing, hoping, no not even hoping worse than that, EXPECTING a different result.
Here is the thing. If you go around in circles, attracting yourself to the same thing/or same type of people just with different names, then even the childhood rhyme tells you that you are going to fall down!
We have the ability to try, something we are born with, but we must create the ability inside ourselves to walk away from what doesn’t work.
If you don’t then each time you go around in the circle the fall gets harder and more painful.
The secret is to try everything once, only hold onto what works. Let go of what doesn’t, and enjoy the road you have taken to get there.
Simple really, break the cycle, stop running around in circles, take the time to mentally digest what you have tried and what you have succeeded.
Give yourself and those around you the benefit of the doubt. Stupidity only comes into play when you continue doing the same thing. Stop the beat up and start the change!
It takes two to make a thing go right!
We are all looking for that perfect partner. That one person who can show us what love is all about. The one you will always count on. Someone to share your bed and life with. Yet nothing ever seems to be good enough.
They work too much. Don't care enough about me. Don't understand where I am coming from. After 19 years of answering relationship questions in my office I could and am writing books all about it.
Here is the deal. Nothing is perfect if you don't allow it to be. If we have curly hair we want straight. Long want short. brown eyes want blue eyes. Single want a relationship. Married and no not always but wish you had other choices.
Whatever happened to loving the life your in? Making a relationship work because you love them. Having the love of your life is not like buying a car. You don't trade it in when too many miles get put on. As a matter of fact, the more miles, the more years, the better the relationship should be!
It is a choice to be unhappy when in love. It is a choice to not communicate the way you should. To let your love life become hallway sex, looking at each other saying Fuck You! Everything in our life is a choice and your relationship is no different.
Communication is the key! Most of us say we have that. But be honest how many of us think our partner should just know what is wrong. What is bothering us. What we need! Hello I am a clairvoyant and I still cannot read my husbands mind. Separate note: thank god. Like I can handle what is my head never name his.
Your partner cannot read your mind and if you need something or are feeling something for the love of god SPIT IT OUT! Tell them. Ask them. Give what you need to them so they can understand how good it feels to get it.
Don't expect that they won't get it, because your ex didn't, or because they didn't before. If they are not listening try a different way. What do you have to loose other than less lawyer bills?
Remember that they are their own person, with their own beliefs, their own dysfunctional upbringing and their own baggage. You have it too, and you want to be accepted for who you are so accept them!
Life is not nearly as complicated as we make it. Have some faith. They are not your past they are your present and your future. Have faith in them, love them through the good the bad and the ugly.
We get what we give. If we try to control everything it won't work. Assume they will just get it? they won't.
I say give some love to get some love, and back to the hallway sex. The only time hallways sex should be allowed is if your partner is ripping your clothes off and throwing you against the wall for traction. It takes less energy to make love than to fight. Less frustration to try to understand than to think you are always right.
If you don't trust them you shouldn't be with them. If you don't love them then the truth is you never really did! Life is simple, we make it complicated.
love and light
Kjarlune
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