Ring around the rosy,
Pocket full of posy,
Husha, husha,
We all fall down.
Even our childhood games mimic where we are headed in life.
Cycles that continually repeat themselves. Growing up we have been taught to not stop, push ahead and accomplish your goals, what has come of this is the cycle.
Continually doing the same thing, hoping, no not even hoping worse than that, EXPECTING a different result.
Here is the thing. If you go around in circles, attracting yourself to the same thing/or same type of people just with different names, then even the childhood rhyme tells you that you are going to fall down!
We have the ability to try, something we are born with, but we must create the ability inside ourselves to walk away from what doesn’t work.
If you don’t then each time you go around in the circle the fall gets harder and more painful.
The secret is to try everything once, only hold onto what works. Let go of what doesn’t, and enjoy the road you have taken to get there.
Simple really, break the cycle, stop running around in circles, take the time to mentally digest what you have tried and what you have succeeded.
Give yourself and those around you the benefit of the doubt. Stupidity only comes into play when you continue doing the same thing. Stop the beat up and start the change!