Desperation:
It is more unflattering than stretch marks.
Ask any man, he would take too much fat in the middle, boobs sagging to the floor, having to do all the work over desperation any day.
It is a waste of emotion. Worse it is a feeling that leaves it’s mark far after the desperation fades.
We all want, no we all need to be loved, needed, wanted, adored, worshiped, understood, trusted, thought of, and basically important to not only that someone special but to anyone and everyone who cares about us.
Our bodies, believe it or not is not how we get that. Our minds and the crazy tricks it plays doesn’t get it for us either. Our energy, what we present ourselves. The way we communicate, we share, we give is what is our “selling” feature.
Desperate is why your house is sitting on the market for too long, not the colors or the size.
If you are alone and desperate than you will stay alone because it is like a “condemned” sign on a property.
If you are in a relationship that is “complicated” lord knows we have all had our share of those….Then get used to complicated my darlings because you are the reason it is complicated.
If you are happy in your relationships and your lives then guess what??? You are never desperate.
Love the life you are living and let it go. Be that breath of fresh air, that magnet that attracts people to your life. Let go of the desperate and get into the “this is my life and I am going to live it” liberation.
Just like taking poison, or having that second drink desperation is a choice.
